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The Magic of Choosing Your Child's Song

4/4/2018

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Music is one of the world's most powerful tools. It has the power to spark intense memories. It can make you laugh, make you cry. It can ignite revolution, and can bring about change. And coming from a long line of both musical and performance artists, music is life to me.

Growing up my mother had a song for each of her 4 children. She ensured we knew the song and her reasoning for choosing it. Even now as adults hearing "our song" on the radio almost always leads to a call to mom, who is always tearfully happy to hear us sing them to her. Seeing how powerful that connection was has lead myself and my siblings to assign songs to our children.

My eldest daughter's song came to me as I listened to the radio during a very emotional day during my second trimester. As the words flowed through me and I rubbed my growing bump tears came to my eyes..."Baby since the day you came into my life You made me realize that we were born to fly...". My baby turned and kicked as I sang...Magic was experienced in that moment.

With my 2nd and last daughter (fingers crossed people) I was very much caught up in the land of "uncomfortable, pregnant, and with toddler" and didn't have the chance to experience such magic. And unfortunately, postpartum depression and anxiety took away much of the magic in the first couple of months (yes, doulas experience these things too). So my little one's song came to me early one morning as I breastfed her while my toddler and husband provided beautiful snoring background music. She gazed up at me lovingly as babies tend to do as they feed, and the words just flowed..."the sweetest thing i've ever known was like a kiss on the collar bone. The soft caress of happiness, the way you walk your style of dress..." She smiled at me and started humming as if singing the song back at me. After crying my entire face off, it was sealed.

Both of my girls know their songs when they hear them. My oldest goes "MOMMY! That's MY song!!!" #tears

So if you haven't chosen a song for your little ones yet, maybe consider it. It can be yet another life long bond that you share with them. It does not have to happen at conception, or even in the first year. It doesn't have t be a popular song. You can make it even more special if you are, like my local Doula colleague Amy and her husband, artists and write an original song for your children.

Like all things,
it doesn't really matter how or when...

What matters is that you don't miss out on the
MAGIC!

5 Comments
Stephanie Brownlee
4/4/2018 08:46:43 pm

Somewhere out there
If lobe can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there. Out where dreams come true....💖

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4/28/2018 07:54:56 am

I can't believe I just caught myself crying after reading this. It's all cute and nice when a child sings. It's actually therapeutic. I remember being depressed a few years back and I thought nothing can ever make me feel better and then I started teaching little kids to sing and it really helped me. I didn't expect having my own child would be way better. He remembers the songs I try to teach him. My in laws kept taking credit but I am really the one who taught him how to sing and it was so subtle he would think he learned things on his own.

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Rainah J. Walker link
4/28/2018 08:55:41 am

That is excellent! Music is Life! It truly is one of the things that connects us all; generation to generation! Keep teaching that baby and one day he will grow to teach others! Thank you for reading!?

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Rainah J. Walker
4/4/2018 08:58:00 pm

? you mommy

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Shirley A link
9/2/2021 12:12:51 pm

Good shaare

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